Marble Jar Trust

In the following clip brené brown describes the concept of trust and the marble jar.

Marble jar trust.

Trust in the most basic sense is placing confidence in another person and in return them placing confidence in you. Brené uses the analogy of a marble jar to help her daughter understand how trust is built. She explained how trust is a lot like a marble jar which was a discipline and reward system her daughter s teacher used in the classroom. We ve got to really share our stories and our hard stuff with people whose jars are full people who ve over time really done those small things that have helped us believe that they re worth our story.

In brené brown s novel daring greatly she shares a story of her young daughter losing trust in her best friends and her subsequent decision to never trust anyone again. If the class did something negative then marbles are taken out of the jar. Designed and built by designhaus alchemy aim. Marbles are earned through small acts moments not grand gestures.

Treat each other with respect marble in. For every marble that is in a jar people have earned your trust for that marble. What do your friends do to earn marbles in your marble jar. 2020 brené brown llc.

So fast forward five years and i m clear about trust and i talk about trust as the marble jar. You could call one of these people at 2 am and he or she would come running. Not the big moments the small moments. Some examples of small acts moments that build trust include showing up at a loved one s funeral and asking for help from friends.

Studies show it is the very small moments where trust is built. Trust and the marble jar. If the class did positive things marbles went in the jar and there s a party when the jar is full. These are the people you trust beyond a doubt.

That s what brene taught lesley when talking about her 9 year old daughter s teacher who kept a jar in her classroom and each time the class did something positive a marble went in the jar. Trust is like a marble jar. It should never be used as a compliance tool to call out shame or humiliate students or to take marbles out as punishment. These are the people who know you the best and honor your connection.

In brené brown s concept of the marble jar these are your marble jar friends. The trust marble jar is a powerful metaphor and tool used to teach how psychological safety is built slowly over time and based on small actions. Tell the truth or defend a friend on the playground marble in.